OurTime Review
Compatibility That Stands the Test of Time
OurTime is a dating site dedicated to singles over 50, offering a relaxed and welcoming environment for mature dating. Part of the Match.com family, OurTime makes online dating simple with easy-to-use features like one-click flirts and a straightforward search. It’s best suited for seniors interested in casual dating, companionship, or even new friendships. The community skews toward those in their 50s, 60s, and beyond, and the platform boasts 8.9 million monthly users worldwide, ensuring a large pool of fellow seniors
I’ve been recommending OurTime for years — especially to folks who want a science-backed way to meet someone compatible. Below, I’ll walk you through what makes OurTime different, what it costs, and who it’s best for.
Our Verdict
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Key Features
How it Works
Senior-Focused Simplicity
All of OurTime’s features are designed with seniors in mind. The interface uses large text and straightforward menus, making it easy to navigate even if you’re not very tech-savvy. Profile creation is quick – just basic info and a photo are needed to start – though you can fill out prompts and interests later to improve your matches
Matches & Search Functions
OurTime offers a balance between providing you some matches and letting you search freely. Every day you’ll see a handful of Match suggestions chosen based on your basic preferences – think of it as a daily “batch” of profiles to consider. But you’re not limited to those; you can also use the Search feature to filter through members.
Communication & Extras
On OurTime.com, initiating contact is as simple as sending a message – but only paying members can start conversations. If you subscribe, you get unlimited messaging, the ability to see read receipts (with certain plans or as an upgrade), and can use voice or video greetings in messages. OurTime also has a feature called “ConnectMe” (an add-on) that lets you talk on the phone through a private number
Safety & Verification
Photo Verification
No — OurTime does not offer a specific photo verification or selfie check feature
ID Verification
No — There is no ID upload or verification for OurTime members
Profile Screening
Yes — OurTime employs moderation to keep the community safe. Profile text and photos go through an approval process.
Privacy Settings
Yes — OurTime gives you a few privacy controls. You can choose to hide your profile from the community if you want to take a break.
Pricing & Plans
eHarmony isn’t the cheapest option, but you’re paying for the structure and member quality.
Free
$0
Standard – 6 months
FROM
$17.96/mo
Premium – 6 months
FROM
$18.14/mo
Tip: longer subscriptions usually drop the monthly cost significantly.
In-Depth Review
Sign-Up Experience
Sign-Up Experience — 5/5: Signing up for OurTime is refreshingly quick. You provide basics like your gender, the gender you’re seeking, birthdate, email, and zip code – and you’re in. There’s no exhaustive survey or personality test gating your entry.
Many seniors find this appealing: you can start browsing and seeing what (or who) is out there in just a few minutes. OurTime will prompt you with some optional profile questions (like interests and a short “About me” blurb) which we recommend filling out eventually, as profiles with more info get more attention.
The site’s design makes profile setup easy: it uses checkboxes and multiple-choice for things like hobbies or preferences, which saves time. Uploading a photo is straightforward too (and OurTime will gently remind you to add one if you haven’t – profiles with photos get vastly more responses). Overall, the onboarding is senior-friendly and you can always edit your profile later as you get more comfortable.
Matches & Messaging
Matches & Messaging — 4/5: On OurTime you have two main ways to find matches: letting the site do it for you, and doing it yourself. Every day, Today’s Matches will show you a curated list of member profiles that fit general criteria you’ve set (age range, distance, etc.).
These are a nice mix and can introduce you to people you might not have found via search. You can indicate “Yes” or “No” on these matches (sort of like a daily batch of Tinder-style likes, but without swiping) – a “Yes” sends them a notification that you’re interested.
Additionally, you can browse profiles using various filters; for example, you could search for divorced members within 50 miles who enjoy travel. When viewing profiles, free users can send a “Flirt” (a quick nudge that you’re interested) for free, but to write a personal message, a subscription is needed. Messaging on OurTime is straightforward text-based chat.
Member Quality
Member Quality/Activity — 4/5: OurTime has a vibrant community of seniors. You’ll find a diverse mix: some widowed or divorced folks looking for a new chapter, others who never married but are now open to companionship, and even some younger 50-somethings dipping their toes back into dating. The site claims over 600,000 members in the U.S. alone.
In practice, the number of active profiles you see will depend on your area (big cities naturally have more activity). Many members use OurTime somewhat casually – logging in a few times a week rather than every day. So, you might send a message and need patience as the person may not check in until a day or two later.
Profiles range in detail; some people write long intros about themselves, while others stick to basics. We noticed a decent portion of profiles mention things like enjoying travel, going to dinner, spending time with family – common themes for this age group, which can be great conversation starters. Photo quality varies, but generally people post recent photos and often include pictures with grandkids or pets (showing what’s important in their life). Activity-wise, OurTime users engage by sending likes or flirts quite a bit, even if they’re shy to message right away.
Details
Parent Company: People Media (owned by Match Group, Inc.) – [Press Room] – Match Group operates OurTime alongside sister sites like Match.com, BlackPeopleMeet, and others focused on various communities.
Cancellation/Refunds: OurTime subscriptions renew automatically, but you can cancel renewal online under your Account Settings (Membership > Cancel Subscription). Once canceled, your subscription will not renew at the end of the term, and you can still use the remaining paid time.
Match Group’s standard policy is no refunds for unused time once a subscription starts (after any required 3-day refund window for new purchases). However, if you meet someone or decide to leave, you can hide or delete your profile to stop new contacts. Always cancel at least 24 hours before renewal date to be safe. Refunds are generally only given if required by local law (e.g., some jurisdictions allow a short cancellation period).
App availability & ratings: OurTime is available as a mobile app on iOS and Android. The iOS app is combined with the “Match” app or labeled as OurTime in the App Store (User rating ~ 4.2★), and the Android app has a rating of around 3.5★ on Google Play. (Ratings as of 2025-10-13.) The app offers the same functionality as the website, including browsing, messaging, and token features. Many seniors enjoy the app for its on-the-go convenience, though some prefer the larger screen of a computer for initial setup.
Verified: 2025-10-13
